If you often get defensive in your interactions with others or have noticed a fear of people seeing who you really are or worry that if people saw the real you they’d reject you, you may be inviting contention into your relationships! What are your underlying worries or fears in the relationship? If we are able to check those out with the people we’re close to and be authentically ourselves, our relationships have a much better chance of being deep and sustaining.Jacobsen: https://www.marriage.com/advice/mental-health/ways-to-overcome-relationship-imposter-syndrome/#:~:text=more%20satisfying%20relat ...