We're talking about relationships this week! Brown's many relationships and thoughts about them, and Contra tenor's one stable marriage or 20 years. Two different perspectives to compare and contrast relationships.

There's also a list of "insecure" relationship aspects that I list early in the episode. Here they are in written form:

• lack of trust-difficulty with intimacy
• trying to get emotionally unavailable people to respond / be nice
• limerance / creating a fantasy world around the relationship
• not being able to tell when people are being nice or mean
• enmeshment. Not knowing where my emotions stop and yours begin. Chronically prioritizing other people
• either taking too much responsibility or not enough. In either case ending up in bad relationships over and over again
• ins ...