Walking Defined

Walking Defined

por Kate Caris & Baylee Hefley
Cristianismo
Are We Raising Rebels? Biblical Parenting vs. Gentle Parenting Part 2
Biblical parenting vs. gentle parenting is one of the biggest conversations Christian parents are facing today. In Part 2, we’re talking about obedience, discipline, homeschooling, worldview, sleep training, and how to raise children to obey God in a confused culture. What happens when we raise children to question every authority, but still expect them to obey the Lord? In this episode of Walking Defined, we continue our conversation on biblical parenting vs. gentle parenting and unpack what it means to train up a child in the way they should go. We talk about why obedience matters, why children need firm and loving boundaries, and how Christian parents can disciple their children instead of letting culture shape their worldview. We talk about: • Biblical parenting and why obedience matters • Gentle parenting, discipline, and the danger of raising rebels • What it means to train up a child biblically • The difference between harsh parenting and loving correction • Why consistency and boundaries help children feel secure • Homeschooling, public school, and worldview formation • How parents can teach children truth before culture gets there first • Sleep training, resilience, and fear-based parenting • Grandparent boundaries and respecting the parents’ authority • Adult children, marriage, and biblical family order This conversation is honest, direct, and deeply countercultural. We are not claiming to parent perfectly. We are learning, repenting, growing, and asking the Lord to teach us how to steward children well. If you are a Christian mom, future mom, grandmother, spiritual auntie, or woman trying to understand parenting through the lens of Scripture, this episode will challenge you to think long-term, reject fear-based parenting, and trust God’s design for the family. Listen to Part 1 of Biblical Parenting vs. Gentle Parenting (Episode 27) before this episode for the full conversation on discipline, obedience, and raising children according to Scripture.Subscribe for honest conversations about taking Scripture seriously in a confused culture. Watch this Episode on YOUTUBE Connect With Us: walkingdefined@gmail.com Follow Walking Defined: YouTube | @WalkingDefined Instagram | @WalkingDefined Facebook | @WalkingDefined TikTok | @WalkingDefined X | @WalkingDefined 🎧 Listen & Subscribe: Subscribe on YouTube, Apple Podcasts, and Spotify. New episodes every Tuesday.
E29
2 jun 2026
54:14
Leaving Legalism, Finding Jesus | Rebekah Eckhardt’s Testimony of Faith, Fear, and Israel
What happens when your faith has been shaped by legalism, religious confusion, suffering, and a deep love for Israel? In this episode of Walking Defined, Baylee sits down with special guest Rebekah Eckhardt to hear her powerful testimony of growing up in a Christian family, walking through legalistic patterns, living and serving in Israel, and learning to keep Jesus at the center of her faith. Rebekah shares about a season of serious illness that brought her face-to-face with the fragility of life and the faithfulness of God. Through that suffering, she learned what it means to rest in Him instead of striving to prove herself. We also talk about: Legalism and religious confusion Why Jesus has to remain the cornerstone of our faith How suffering can deepen our trust in God Rebekah’s experience living and serving in Israel Fear, spiritual warfare, and trusting God with our lives Marriage, sanctification, and letting God shape us Why Christians should be careful not to drift from the gospel Israel, antisemitism, prophecy, and the return of Jesus The power of testimony and speaking truth out loud This conversation is honest, weighty, and full of wisdom for anyone who has wrestled through confusion, fear, legalism, or trying to understand where they stand with God. If you’ve ever felt like you needed to have every answer, earn God’s love, or figure out your faith perfectly, this episode is a reminder that Jesus is enough. Watch this Episode on YouTube Connect With Us: walkingdefined@gmail.com Follow Walking Defined: YouTube | @WalkingDefined Instagram | @WalkingDefined Facebook | @WalkingDefined TikTok | @WalkingDefined X | @WalkingDefined 🎧 Listen & Subscribe: Subscribe on YouTube, Apple Podcasts, and Spotify. New episodes every Tuesday.
E28
19 may 2026
1:16:52
Biblical Parenting vs. Gentle Parenting | Are We Raising Kids to Obey God?
Are we raising children to follow their feelings, or training them to obey the Lord? In this episode of Walking Defined, we’re unpacking one of the most controversial conversations in Christian culture today: parenting. The world tells parents that discipline is harmful, obedience is outdated, and children should be led by their emotions. But what does the Bible actually say? We talk about: Biblical discipline and why obedience matters The difference between loving correction and harsh parenting Why gentle parenting can become a feelings-first approach How parents can prepare children to obey God later in life Why doing the hard work now matters for who your children become The importance of a unified marriage in parenting Why your job is not to make your child happy, but to raise them well How culture is shaping children before parents realize it This conversation is direct, countercultural, and rooted in the belief that Scripture is still true, still applicable, and still the standard for how we live. If you’re a Christian mom feeling confused, convicted, overwhelmed, or unsure where to start, this episode is for you. We are not claiming to parent perfectly. We are learning, wrestling, repenting, and growing too. But we believe parents have been entrusted with a sacred responsibility, and culture cannot be the loudest voice shaping our children. Subscribe for honest conversations about taking Scripture seriously in a confused culture. Watch this Episode on YouTube Connect With Us: walkingdefined@gmail.com Follow Walking Defined: YouTube | @WalkingDefined Instagram | @WalkingDefined Facebook | @WalkingDefined TikTok | @WalkingDefined X | @WalkingDefined 🎧 Listen & Subscribe: Subscribe on YouTube, Apple Podcasts, and Spotify. New episodes every Tuesday.
E27
6 may 2026
1:10:36
Yoga, Horoscopes, & Superstitions: What Should Christians Avoid?
What if it’s not just what you say… but what you’re participating in? In this episode of Walking Defined, Kate and Baylee continue their conversation on superstitions—but this time, they go deeper. This isn’t just about phrases like “knock on wood” or “fingers crossed.” This is about actions, habits, and practices that have become normalized… even within the Christian life. From everyday sayings to things like yoga, meditation, horoscopes, and “energy” practices, this conversation challenges one central question: Does intention matter… or does participation? This episode unpacks: The spiritual implications behind common phrases like jinx, third time’s a charm, and fingers crossed Why “good intentions” don’t remove spiritual participation The origin and influence of astrology and horoscopes The difference between biblical meditation and modern meditation A deep dive into yoga—its origins, meaning, and spiritual implications Why “neutral” spiritual practices don’t actually exist Conviction vs. legalism (and how to navigate both biblically) The importance of obedience once you know the truth This is not about fear. This is not about perfection. It’s about becoming aware, responding to conviction, and choosing obedience in your walk with God. Because once you know… you’re no longer operating in ignorance. Watch this Episode on YouTube Connect With Us: walkingdefined@gmail.com Follow Walking Defined: YouTube | @WalkingDefined Instagram | @WalkingDefined Facebook | @WalkingDefined TikTok | @WalkingDefined X | @WalkingDefined 🎧 Listen & Subscribe: Subscribe on YouTube, Apple Podcasts, and Spotify. New episodes every Tuesday.
E26
28 abr 2026
1:14:03
The Strongholds on Our Lives | People pleasing, anxiety, control, idolatry
You know that sin that you thought you dealt with, but it just keeps sneaking back into your life?Today's episode of Walking Defined is a follow up to our conversation about strongholds. We peel back the layers on What is a stronghold? How do we combat the sin that we can't seem to get rid of completely? What strongholds are we personally still struggling with? God's not done with us, and Praise the Lord He is not! Baylee and Kate talk through what posture is required in order for a "sin on steroids" to really be broken so true freedom can be felt, found and experienced. Whether you are dealing with the poison of sin that was fun for a season or the bondage of that thing you have surrendered over and over... know you are not alone. God wants to free us and he will when we know how to ask. Watch this Episode on YouTube Connect With Us: walkingdefined@gmail.com Follow Walking Defined: YouTube | @WalkingDefined Instagram | @WalkingDefined Facebook | @WalkingDefined TikTok | @WalkingDefined X | @WalkingDefined 🎧 Listen & Subscribe: Subscribe on YouTube, Apple Podcasts, and Spotify. New episodes every Tuesday.
E25
21 abr 2026
59:02
Does Your Story Really Start With You? | God’s Plan, Generational Impact & Identity in Christ with Stephanie Bischoff
What if the parts of your story you try to forget… are actually where God was moving the most? Stephanie didn’t grow up knowing God. No church. No gospel. Just broken relationships, anger, and a life that didn’t feel stable. Then one weekend, everything changed. In this episode, she shares what it actually looked like to hear the gospel for the first time and what happened when it collided with everything she thought was normal. We get into: What it’s like to meet Jesus when you’ve never heard the truth before How generational sin patterns show up in real life Why following Jesus doesn’t instantly fix your old habits The tension of trying to live in the light when you only know darkness How God uses pain to prepare you, not punish you What real redemption in a mother-daughter relationship can look like Why being made in God’s image matters more than you think If you’ve ever wrestled with: Where God was in your past Why your upbringing still affects you Whether change is actually possible You’ll see yourself in this one. God doesn’t wait for your life to be clean. He steps into it. And He doesn’t just change your future. He redeems what came before it. Watch this Episode on YouTube Connect With Us: walkingdefined@gmail.com Follow Walking Defined: YouTube | @WalkingDefined Instagram | @WalkingDefined Facebook | @WalkingDefined TikTok | @WalkingDefined X | @WalkingDefined 🎧 Listen & Subscribe: Subscribe on YouTube, Apple Podcasts, and Spotify. New episodes every Tuesday.
E24
14 abr 2026
1:16:55
Resurrection Day Everyday | Passover, Communion & Staying Ready for Jesus’ Return
What if Easter isn’t something you celebrate once a year? What if it was meant to change how you live every day? In this episode, we talk about the difference between tradition and truth and what it actually looks like to live in the power of the resurrection daily. We talk about: Legalism vs conviction The origins of Easter traditions Why Resurrection Day should not stop at Sunday How Passover points to Jesus Taking communion at home and what it means How to stay ready for Jesus’ return If you’ve ever thought: “Am I just going through the motions?” “Is this actually honoring God or just tradition?” This conversation is for you. Following Jesus is not seasonal. It should change how you live every day. How I celebrated Passover: https://extravaganthope.com/last-meal-finding-jesus-passover/?utm_source=Pinterest&utm_medium=organic Watch this Episode on YouTube Connect With Us: walkingdefined@gmail.com Follow Walking Defined: YouTube | @WalkingDefined Instagram | @WalkingDefined Facebook | @WalkingDefined TikTok | @WalkingDefined X | @WalkingDefined 🎧 Listen & Subscribe: Subscribe on YouTube, Apple Podcasts, and Spotify. New episodes every Tuesday.
E23
7 abr 2026
59:10
What Strongholds Are Still Holding You Back? | Idolatry, Insecurity & Sexual Sin
In this episode of Walking Defined, Baylee and Kate breaking down what strongholds are and how they quietly keep us stuck in cycles of sin, insecurity, and misplaced identity. If you’ve ever struggled with: Insecurity and body image Idolatry (putting something above God) Sexual sin or shame Negative thought patterns you can’t seem to break This conversation will help you understand why those patterns keep showing up and how to experience true healing through Jesus. We talk about how strongholds form, how the enemy uses them to distort your identity, and how things like control, self-image, relationships, and even “healthy habits” can become idols without us realizing it. You’ll also hear honest, personal experiences around: Body image struggles and self-worth The shift from insecurity to idolatry Sexual sin, pornography, and healing in marriage Breaking shame and renewing your mind How culture distorts God’s design for sex and identity Most importantly, we walk through how to break strongholds using biblical truth and step into the freedom God has for you.
E22
31 mar 2026
49:53
Are You Living for Jesus… or Your Comfort? | The Truth About Evangelism
In this episode of Walking Defined, we’re diving into one of the most uncomfortable—but essential—parts of the Christian life: evangelism. If we’re honest, most of us avoid sharing the gospel. Not because we don’t believe it… but because we’re afraid. Afraid of rejection. Afraid of saying the wrong thing. Afraid of stepping outside of our comfort. But what if our silence is costing someone their eternity? We talk about: Why so many Christians don’t share their faith The fear of man vs. obedience to God Why you will never feel “ready” to speak up The difference between planting seeds and seeing results Why recognizing sin is essential to understanding the gospel How to approach evangelism with both truth and grace What it looks like to share your faith with family and friends Practical ways to start having intentional conversations This conversation is convicting for us too. Because at the end of the day, the question isn’t just how to evangelize… It’s whether we’re willing to obey when God calls us to speak. Scripture Referenced: 1 Peter 3:15 — Be prepared to give an answer for the hope within you Matthew 28:19 — The Great Commission 1 Corinthians 3:6 — One plants, another waters, but God gives the growth CONNECT WITH US: If this episode challenged or encouraged you, we’d love to hear from you! walkingdefined@gmail.com FOLLOW THE WALKING DEFINED PODCAST: YouTube | @WalkingDefined Instagram | @WalkingDefined Facebook | @WalkingDefined TikTok | @WalkingDefined X | @WalkingDefined Subscribe to ‘Walking Defined’ on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Apple Podcasts⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Spotify⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. New episodes every Tuesday..
E21
24 mar 2026
1:02:10
Lukewarm Faith & the Power of Your Words | Cursing, Superstitions, and Gossip
What comes out of your mouth is not random—it is a reflection of what is in your heart. In this episode, we talk about the power of the tongue and how our everyday speech can reveal deeper issues of conviction, compromise, and spiritual awareness. From casually using the Lord’s name in vain to gossip, exaggeration, and empty phrases we don’t think twice about, this conversation challenges us to slow down and examine what our words are actually producing. This is not about becoming polished or perfect. It is about becoming aware. Because scripture is clear: the tongue is powerful, and what flows out of us is rooted in what is within us. In this episode, we discuss: Why the tongue is one of the hardest things to control What it actually means to use the Lord’s name in vain How culture normalizes careless and empty speech The connection between your words and your heart Gossip, exaggeration, and “harmless” language Conviction vs. desensitization in everyday conversation What it looks like to bring your speech under the lordship of Jesus Scripture Referenced: James 3 Exodus 20:7 Leviticus 19:12 Deuteronomy 5:11 James 5:12 Ephesians 4:29 Luke 6:45 Matthew 12:34 Romans 6:1–2 Connect With Us: Instagram: @walkingdefined YouTube: Walking Defined Podcast Email: walkingdefinedpodcast@gmail.com
E20
17 mar 2026
1:00:03
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