I have spent my entire life looking like a success. But through it all, I was so insecure I had very little self-love. I thought if I emulated the external world, I could be somebody. I was a fake. In 1991, I met Ken Kizer, a coach who relentlessly forced me to face my inner critic! I ended every session with Ken in tears and emotional pain.

Today, I stand in a place that honors me from an internal place of self-love. I still love all my external joys, like clothing, the theater, and hanging out with famous people, but it is not my identity. I am finally the woman I always wanted to be. I glide around with a lot of peace and very little fear about the future. That comes with age, but it mainly involves working with Ken Kizer for 32 years.

I want you to meet my coach, Ken Kizer. In our conversation, I revealed much abo ...