After surviving cancer, I thought I was finally moving forward but my marriage was still falling apart.

In this episode, I share one of the harder parts of my story to admit: I had an affair. I’m not sharing it to justify what I did or make excuses. I’m sharing it because healing also means taking accountability for the parts of our stories where we were wrong.

That relationship showed me what had been missing from my marriage and forced me to confront what I truly wanted from a partner.

Two things can be true at once: you can be deeply hurt by someone and still be responsible for the ways you hurt them.

This is a conversation about loneliness, infidelity, accountability, and finally recognizing when a relationship is no longer what you want for your life.