What's really happening beneath the surface of your hardest conversations? In this episode, Christina explores why even the people we love most can miss each other — and why that doesn't mean something is broken. Following Love Without Collapse, this conversation names what walks into the room before a single word is spoken: two nervous systems, two histories, two stories already in motion. Drawing from Psalm 139, Matthew 7, and James 1:19, this episode offers a reframe for every relationship where care and history travel together — couples, friendships, parents and children, colleagues. And it begins with the most honest question: what are you carrying in?

Keywords: nervous system, relational rupture, Christian relationships, Psalm 139, Matthew 7, James 1:19, attachment theory, emotional health, misattunement, self-awareness, embodied fait ...