You've probably heard some version of this message: "If God is enough, why do you still need people?" It sounds spiritual. But underneath it is an assumption worth examining — that attachment is a training wheel. That if you mature enough in your faith, the ache for safe human connection will eventually go away.

This episode pushes back on that assumption. Not because community is a nice add-on to spiritual life, but because attachment is infrastructure. Your nervous system was built for co-regulation. And the longing you feel for safe, consistent connection isn't evidence that your faith is shallow — it's evidence that your body still remembers God's design.

In this episode, we explore what Polyvagal theory tells us about why isolation registers as threat even in people with deep faith, what happens to mission when we try to ...