The Marriage Jam
por Red & ShayWelcome to "The Marriage Jam"!! We are your hosts Red & Shay! This is a taste of what you can expect when two married, lovingly inappropriate goofballs decide to make a podcast talking about marriage. Welcome to our first official episode of The Marriage Jam Podcast!! Here we discuss new beginnings for already existing relationships and new couples. Why is it so hard to start over? Here we give you some insights on what makes starting over so hard and how we can all stop getting in our own way. No one can be right 100% of the time. We're all human, we make mistakes and we grow. So how important is it to right your wrongs with your partner? Let's Jam! 
Reconnection
In this episode of The Marriage Jam, we sit down to talk about something that comes up more often than people admit—feeling disconnected in a relationship and trying to find your way back to each other. We read a listener dilemma that really hit close to home. It’s about that slow drift that can happen when life gets busy, conversations get shorter, and you start feeling more like roommates than partners. No huge blowups… just distance. And honestly, that can be just as hard to deal with. Join us as we talk about what reconnection actually looks like when things feel off. We share what’s worked for us, what hasn’t, and the small shifts that can start bringing you back into alignment with each other. If you’ve ever felt like you’re trying to “find your way back” to your partner, this conversation is for you. Remember it’s not about fixing everything overnight—it’s about noticing each other again, rebuilding the little moments, and choosing to show up differently starting today. Thank you for listening and choosing to show up for yourselves everyday. Now let's jam!Temporada 1
What happens when your mind is always five steps ahead of your life? In this episode of The Marriage Jam, Red & Shay get real about “Living In The Future” — and how constantly worrying about what’s next can quietly damage your relationship, your peace, and your ability to be present with the person you love. With their signature mix of humor, honesty, and heart, they share how this mindset shows up in everyday life and what it’s been like navigating it in their own marriage. If you’ve ever struggled to slow down, stay present, or stop overthinking what hasn’t even happened yet… this conversation is for you. Real talk. Real love. Every week. Let's Jam 💛 Today we are talking relationship flags!! We are breaking down our personal red & green flags and explaining the concept of yellow flags. And we have a fun surprise for everyone who listened to our first episode! Red Flag, Green Flag Part 2
Alright here we have red flag green flag part 2! This time we swap sides and finish up our flags for new relationships!Today we are talking about your personal tanks. What are they? Why does this awareness matter not only to you but to your partner? We are breaking it down in this weeks bonus episode! This time we are discussing weddings & anniversaries! We just celebrated our wedding anniversary and thought it was perfect timing. Let's get into the politics & expectations of tying the knot! In Episode 4 Tanks, we discussed what Tanks are and how they can all start to get out of whack if you don't keep track! Well once the tanks are all either empty or over filled... this leads to TENSION! What causes is and how can we start to finally ease the tension?