In this episode of Confronting Evil in Our Time, hosts Ian and Micheal continue their “Lenses” series, exploring how the ways we interpret life are often shaped long before we realize it. A lens is not simply what we believe; it is the framework through which we interpret every experience. Many of these lenses are formed in childhood, through family dynamics, stability or instability at home, and the examples set by parents. When those early environments are inconsistent or emotionally confusing, people often learn survival strategies that help them adapt in the moment but can quietly shape their identity for years to come.

The conversation focuses on the formation of what the hosts call the “false self.” This false self is not necessarily deception or intentional hypocrisy; rather, it is an ...