We need to talk about the list. You know the one - the notes app document from 2019, or that paper you wrote back when you were 13, that has "6'2", funny, loves his mom, has a retirement account" written out like a job posting for a husband. This episode gets into all of it: how I found my person, the light investigavite (stalking) work that may or may not have involved knowing his siblings' names, ex-girlfriends, and every job he's had, before we had a real conversation. And the very thin line between manifesting a relationship and just... deciding someone is yours before they've agreed to that. We're getting honest about what it actually looks like when you're in a situationship that only exists in one person's head - and somehow it still works out.

But we're also going deep on the list itself. Is having a detailed vision of your future p ...