Most of us have both energies inside us: the one that pushes, plans and gets things done, and the one that flows, feels and simply is. In this episode, we get into what happens when the balance tips too far in one direction — and how to find your way back. Louisa admits she’s been running almost entirely on masculine energy for years, and we talk about what that costs, what gets lost along the way, and why softening isn’t weakness — it’s actually the harder thing to do. Somewhere in the middle of it all, a genuinely useful question: what would life feel like if you didn’t have to push so hard?

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