Out Loud & Laughing

por Bryan Ruiz and Jon Ruiz

Temporada 4

Daniel Reynolds: Behind the Cover: Inside LGBTQ+ Media with the Editor-in-Chief of Out & The Advocate

Queer visibility does not happen by accident, and Daniel Reynolds has spent more than a decade making sure it gets seen, remembered, and celebrated. From fighting for LGBTQ students in New Jersey to shaping the front pages at Out and The Advocate, he reveals how media, activism, and culture collide when the stakes are deeply personal. Bryan and Jon sit down with Daniel for a conversation that moves from his early days coming out in high school and organizing campus queer life to the newsroom lessons that turned him into a true custodian of culture. He shares how he learned the power of mobilization, why print still matters in an algorithm-driven world, and what it means to report on marriage equality, Pulse, presidential elections, and the stories other outlets still miss.You’ll hear Daniel break down: Why a 3,000-word profile can reveal more truth than breaking news How student activism taught him to build coalitions, raise money, and use media strategically The difference between queer journalism in the print era and the instant-news, social-first landscape Why relationship stories, like his own 15-year partnership, often come down to communication What makes someone feel less alone and why that matters more than changing minds Daniel also opens up about choosing purpose over an easier path, walking away from Disney work to join The Advocate, and why his work is rooted in one simple goal: helping LGBTQ people see themselves reflected with honesty and nuance. Along the way, he and the hosts get delightfully candid about queer culture, musical theater, print magazines, and the traditions that make community feel like home.This one is essential listening if you care about LGBTQ media, queer history, journalism with heart, or the stories behind the stories. Daniel’s perspective is equal parts thoughtful, funny, and urgent—and it leaves you with a powerful reminder that storytelling can be a lifeline Daniel Reynolds, Out magazine, Out.com, The Advocate, LGBTQ activism, queer activism, Daniel Reynolds interview, LGBTQ news, queer storytelling YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@OutLoudAndLaughing?sub_confirmation=1 Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Daniel Reynolds' background 01:59 Daniel's early activism and college leadership 04:03 The role of media in LGBTQ visibility 08:06 Storytelling as a tool for community building 12:09 Changes in the media landscape over the past decade 16:00 Challenges of reporting in a polarized environment 19:58 Personal stories of love and identity 22:06 Advice for young LGBTQ individuals 26:00 Fun rapid-fire questions: preferences and insights 34:01 Impact of Daniel's work on the community 35:57 Closing remarks and future milestones —-- Visit us at www.OutLoudAndLaughing.com Listen on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/7obVHRF8knOr0WUMOZLJnM Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLvTk63DP29cMR3QjT_xkkHygIX2MZi1c9

T4 · E169

15 sept 2026

36:47

Temporada 3

Alexander-Ali Dalipi - The Balance Between Owning Your Own HR-Tech Business & Spilling All the NSFW (After-Hours) Tea

In this episode, Alexander Ali Dalipi shares his journey from Wall Street to founding HR1 Systems, navigating the challenges of being a queer leader in corporate America, and balancing his personal identity with professional success. Tune in for insights on leadership, authenticity, and building a thriving business. Follow on Instagram: instagram.com/nycculater/ Visit HR1 Systems: https://hr1systems.com/ Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Alexander Ali Dalipi and his journey 02:02 Early career on Wall Street and initial challenges 04:04 Founding HR1 Systems and the entrepreneurial leap 08:57 Navigating identity and workplace culture as a queer leader 13:58 Lessons learned from building a diverse and inclusive company 20:00 Balancing personal life, travel, and leadership 22:59 Advice for LGBTQ+ entrepreneurs and aspiring leaders 26:59 The importance of authenticity and having a massive heart 29:57 Final thoughts and connecting with Alexander online queer leadership, entrepreneurship, HR technology, authentic leadership, corporate culture, LGBTQ+ in business, startup journey, personal branding, diversity and inclusion, business growth YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@OutLoudAndLaughing?sub_confirmation=1 —-- Visit us at www.OutLoudAndLaughing.com Listen on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/7obVHRF8knOr0WUMOZLJnM Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLvTk63DP29cMR3QjT_xkkHygIX2MZi1c9

T3 · E168

10 sept 2026

30:41

Kevin John: Belting Out Loud – Authenticity, Rejection, and Radical Self-Love

In this episode, Kevin John shares his journey from childhood to becoming a versatile performer, discussing the challenges of coming out, the impact of American Idol, and his musical inspirations. He offers insights into staying authentic, the power of self-belief, and the importance of representation in the entertainment industry. More About Kevin John: linktr.ee/Kevinjohn https://www.instagram.com/kevinjohnmusic/ https://www.tiktok.com/@kevinjohnmurray YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@OutLoudAndLaughing?sub_confirmation=1 Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Kevin John's Journey 01:09 Kevin's Childhood and Love for Singing 02:16 Inspiration from Jennifer Hudson and Musical Theater 04:19 Moment of Realization and Advice from Dad 06:49 Coming Out and Family Relationships 08:58 Hesitation in Bringing Full Self to Performances 10:26 American Idol Experience and Growth 12:21 Legacy, Representation, and Dolly Parton 14:35 Behind-the-Scenes on American Idol 15:29 Chaotic Moments on a Moving Cruise Ship Stage 17:22 Kevin's Music Inspirations and Recent Releases 19:45 Viral Moments and Disney Connections 25:55 Favorite Shower or Bath and Personal Grooming 26:56 Performance Style: Belting or Smooth Runs 27:09 Legacy and How Kevin Wants to Be Remembered Kevin John, music journey, coming out, American Idol, authenticity, representation, performance, LGBTQ+ —-- Visit us at www.OutLoudAndLaughing.com Listen on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/7obVHRF8knOr0WUMOZLJnM Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLvTk63DP29cMR3QjT_xkkHygIX2MZi1c9

T3 · E167

8 sept 2026

29:57

Stewart Taylor: Dark Summer Zombies, James Dean, and a Dog Cameo That Stole the Show

In this episode, Stuart Taylor shares his journey from a bright pop star to exploring darker, more personal themes in his music, inspired by icons like James Dean and Lana Del Rey. We discuss his creative process, the making of his latest single Dark Summer, and his openness about his identity and artistic evolution. Website: https://www.stewarttaylorofficial.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/imstewarttaylor/?hl=en Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/artist/5eBGNCXlI0K8yocyrViIlo YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCiDaHe770n5WWUDFTOarY6Q YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@OutLoudAndLaughing?sub_confirmation=1 Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Stewart Taylor and his artistic journey 01:49 From pop star to darker, industrial pop sound 04:00 The importance of authenticity and personal stories in music 06:54 Inspiration behind Dark Summer and its themes 11:05 The making of the Dark Summer music video 13:02 James Dean's influence and personal connection 17:06 Creative process and happy accidents in production 20:56 Stewart's openness about identity and personal stories 24:06 Final thoughts and upcoming projects music, dark pop, artistic evolution, James Dean, LGBTQ+, songwriting, music video, creative process, personal stories —-- Visit us at www.OutLoudAndLaughing.com Listen on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/7obVHRF8knOr0WUMOZLJnM Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLvTk63DP29cMR3QjT_xkkHygIX2MZi1c9

T3 · E166

3 sept 2026

36:33

Kirstie Nicole: Redefining Leadership and Activating the Power of Authentic Storytelling

In this episode, Kirstie Nicole shares her journey from content creator to media entrepreneur, emphasizing the importance of authenticity, vulnerability, and building community. She discusses her work with She Comes with Baggage Media and the Amastara friendship app, highlighting how embracing baggage and identity can foster genuine connections and leadership. Kirstie Nicole's journey from content creator to media entrepreneur The importance of authenticity and vulnerability in leadership How her media company amplifies diverse and queer stories The creation and impact of the Amastara friendship app The role of baggage and identity in personal and professional growth Building community through storytelling and shared experiences The significance of representation and diversity in media Balancing work, mental health, and personal life as a leader YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@OutLoudAndLaughing?sub_confirmation=1 Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Kirstie Nicole and her work 01:00 Kirstie shares her journey from content creator to media CEO 02:00 The importance of authenticity and vulnerability in leadership 02:59 Creating community through storytelling and shared experiences 07:00 The origin and mission of the Amastara friendship app 10:58 How identity and representation influence leadership and media 14:52 Balancing work, mental health, and personal growth 19:48 The future of queer representation in media 22:59 Building impactful media platforms and community spaces 25:00 Quick fire: personal preferences and mindset insights 31:05 Final thoughts: Dreaming big and staying authentic media entrepreneurship, authenticity, vulnerability, community building, queer representation, leadership, storytelling, friendship app, mental health, diversity, Kirstie Nicole, She Comes with Baggage, She Comes with Baggage Media —-- Visit us at www.OutLoudAndLaughing.com Listen on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/7obVHRF8knOr0WUMOZLJnM Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLvTk63DP29cMR3QjT_xkkHygIX2MZi1c9

T3 · E165

1 sept 2026

33:39

Meet Joseph Lucido | Building a Career, Brand, and Life Without Curating Perfection

Google product strategist by day, jet-setting creator by night, Joseph Lucido is living the kind of double life most people only daydream about. But behind the glossy travel photos and iconic party stories is a sharper question: how do you build a life that is ambitious, visible, and still actually yours? (instagram.com/joseph.lucido) Joseph opens up about balancing nearly eight years at Google with more than a decade as a content creator, and why he stopped trying to maintain a perfectly curated persona online. He shares how his social media evolved from college-athlete followings and modeling gigs into a more honest, more fun version of himself - one that reflects his real life instead of an edited fantasy. We break down the realities of building a personal brand while working a demanding corporate job, including the discipline it takes to make time for creativity, the boundaries that matter when your life is your content, and why today’s audiences reward people who are hot, funny, and relatable - not just polished. Joseph also takes us inside some of his most unforgettable travel experiences, from World Pride in Amsterdam and Berlin Pride’s wild underground scene to the chaotic, hilarious, and occasionally jaw-dropping reality of Atlantis gay cruises. If you’ve ever wondered what actually happens on those boats, this conversation pulls back the curtain with stories you will not hear anywhere else. At its core, this episode is about more than travel and nightlife. It’s about choosing authenticity over perfection, learning how to protect your energy, and building a life that reflects both your ambition and your heart. Perfect for anyone juggling a career, a side hustle, and the pressure to show up online - or anyone who simply wants a wildly entertaining conversation with someone who has truly lived. Joseph Lucido is a product strategist at Google and a long-time creator known for his travel, nightlife, and lifestyle content. He brings the rare perspective of someone who is equally at home in corporate strategy meetings and on the front row of a festival or Pride party. YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@OutLoudAndLaughing?sub_confirmation=1 Time Stamps: 00:00 Introduction to Joseph Lucido's Life and Career 02:04 Balancing a Corporate Job at Google with Content Creation 03:54 Evolving Social Media Boundaries and Authenticity 07:04 Travel Adventures: Pride Events and International Experiences 11:58 The Culture and Vibes of Gay Cruises and Parties 19:57 Stories from Gay Cruises: Fun, Boundaries, and Experiences 26:03 Deep Dive into Berlin and Amsterdam Pride Celebrations 33:03 Personal Insights: Drive, Heart, and Living Boldly social media, travel, gay culture, cruising, Google, content creation, Pride, international travel, boundaries, lifestyle, Joseph Lucido —-- Visit us at www.OutLoudAndLaughing.com Listen on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/7obVHRF8knOr0WUMOZLJnM Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLvTk63DP29cMR3QjT_xkkHygIX2MZi1c9

T3 · E164

27 ago 2026

35:38

Meet Alexander Stefanini | How a therapist built a sanctuary for trans and queer healing

Trans and queer people are being asked to survive a hostile climate while still finding a way to heal, transition, and stay whole. Licensed therapist and Arrive Therapy founder Alexander Stefanini shares what actually helps: sanctuary, community, laughter, and care that meets people where they are (ArriveTherapy.com) This conversation goes far beyond headlines and rhetoric. Alexander opens up about building a practice rooted in safety for trans, non-binary, and LGBTQ+ clients, and why an intentional space matters from the very first phone call to the waiting room to the therapy room itself. He also shares how his own life as a trans parent, adopted child, and former kid raised in a religious missionary family shaped the way he thinks about belonging, resilience, and care. Why Arrive Therapy was created as more than a clinic and more like a community center How political fear and media narratives are showing up in real people’s mental health The myths about trans identity that keep getting repeated, and what’s actually true Why not every trans person wants the same transition path, and why that matters How humor can unlock breakthrough moments in therapy without minimizing the work Alexander also talks candidly about protecting his own peace, staying grounded as a therapist and advocate, and why support systems can change outcomes in a profound way. If you’ve ever wanted a clearer, more human conversation about trans joy, trans care, and what real affirmation looks like, this one will stay with you. Alexander Stefanini is a licensed therapist and the clinical director of Arrive Therapy, a practice focused on trans, non-binary, and LGBTQ+ mental health support. He’s known for creating affirming spaces that center community, safety, and authentic arrival. Essential listening if you care about trans rights, mental health, chosen family, or building spaces where people can finally exhale and be themselves. YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@OutLoudAndLaughing?sub_confirmation=1 00:00 Introduction to Alexander Stefanini and Arrive Therapy 01:47 Alexander's journey from religious upbringing to therapy 04:58 The organic growth of Arrive Therapy and its mission 08:00 Impact of sociopolitical hostility on mental health 11:03 The importance of community and physical safe spaces 12:50 Common misconceptions about trans identities 16:01 The bravery and resilience of trans individuals 18:58 Protecting mental health and finding joy in activism 21:57 Alexander's personal practices for maintaining peace 24:53 The role of laughter and lightness in therapy 27:58 The symbolism of neon and the meaning of Arrive Therapy 29:00 Closing remarks and where to find Alexander online LGBTQ+ therapy, trans community, mental health, safe spaces, resilience, Arrive Therapy, community support, mental health advocacy, Alexander Stefanini —-- Visit us at www.OutLoudAndLaughing.com Listen on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/7obVHRF8knOr0WUMOZLJnM Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLvTk63DP29cMR3QjT_xkkHygIX2MZi1c9

T3 · E163

25 ago 2026

27:03

Revealing What Asexual Looks Like – From HighFashion Modeling to NYC Pride Grand Marshal with Yasmin Benoit

Most people assume the fashion and modeling worlds are rooted purely in sexuality and male gaze—Yasmin Benoit challenges that with her radical authenticity and activism. As the first openly asexual grand marshal at NYC Pride and a trailblazing figure in alternative fashion, she turns societal expectations upside down, revealing how visibility can be a powerful act of liberation. But what happens when a space built on hypersexualization is navigated by someone who simply doesn’t see sex or desire the same way? In this episode, Yasmin shares her raw journey from an unpopular, heavy metal-loving kid in England to an international model and fierce activist transforming perceptions of identity and representation. She discusses how her choice to attend an all-girl school was a protective instinct, fueling her understanding of her own boundaries even before she knew the labels. We break down the misconceptions about asexuality—how it’s often misunderstood, stereotyped, and ultimately erased in mainstream media—and how Yasmin’s viral campaign, “This is what asexual looks like,” sparked a global movement that’s unlearning shame and inspiring countless individuals to embrace their true selves.You'll discover: The surprising ways Yasmin navigates the hypersexualized fashion industry while staying true to her identity How her activism sparked the framing of asexuality as a valid, visible experience in diverse communities worldwide Practical strategies for protecting your mental health when constantly being called to educate others The importance of authentic representation—not just for visibility, but for shifting societal narratives and laws Why diversity in media and industry isn’t just a trend—it's a necessity for genuine inclusion This episode isn’t just about Yasmin’s stunning career or her activism—it’s about unlearning societal programming, reclaiming your own voice, and choosing joy on your own terms. Whether you’re navigating your own identity or fighting to create space for others, Yasmin’s story offers a blueprint for authenticity, resilience, and radical love. Yasmin Benoit is an international model, award-winning actor, research fellow at King’s College London, and activist for asexual and LGBTQ+ visibility. She’s transforming how we see identity—one bold act at a time. YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@OutLoudAndLaughing?sub_confirmation=1 Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Yasmin Benoit 03:01 Yasmin's Origin Story and Early Life 06:05 Navigating School and Identity 09:01 Entering the Modeling World 12:00 The Impact of Asexuality and Activism 15:03 The Burden of Being an Educator 18:01 Fun and Games: This or That 21:02 Closing Thoughts and Where to Find Yasmin Yasmin Benoit, Asexuality, LGBTQ+ activism, Diversity, Representation, Modeling, Viral Campaign, This is what asexual looks like, Pride, Mental health —-- Visit us at www.OutLoudAndLaughing.com Listen on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/7obVHRF8knOr0WUMOZLJnM Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLvTk63DP29cMR3QjT_xkkHygIX2MZi1c9

T3 · E162

20 ago 2026

20:06

The Anatomy of Confidence – Shedding Small-Town Shame for NYC, Jockstraps, & 16-Hour Days with Zane Kazan

Most people think of the adult entertainment industry as a realm where passion and ambition clash with shame and stereotypes. Zane Kazan, a trailblazing actor, content creator, and founder of Helio Menswear, shatters that misconception by unapologetically owning his sexuality while aiming for mainstream greatness. In this candid conversation, he reveals how he's balancing bold business ventures, a sex-positive brand, and the relentless pursuit of his dreams — all without sacrificing authenticity. You’ll discover how Zane built his empire while working 16-hour days launching his menswear line, overcoming marketing challenges with Meta’s strict policies, and using his extensive knowledge to rebrand and amplify his reach across nine platforms. He shares the secret to maintaining a positive attitude through setbacks, including tens of thousands lost and industry chaos, by reading voraciously and always aspiring to be the smartest person in the room. We also break down Zane’s unique approach to owning his identity: embracing his body, unlearning shame, and turning radical self-love into both his personal and professional power. His story isn’t just about success — it’s about redefining what it means to be unapologetically you in a world eager to box people in. Perfect for anyone craving motivation with real talk, this episode offers fierce inspiration and practical tactics to own your truth and level up on your terms. X: @ZaneKazan Instagram: @zane.kazan TikTok: @zane_kazan Instagram: @heliomenswearco Website: Helio Men’s Wear (heliomenswear.com) YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@OutLoudAndLaughing?sub_confirmation=1 Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Zane Kazan 01:10 A Day in the Life of Zane 02:12 Early Influences and Entering the Industry 04:07 Balancing Ambition and Authenticity 06:00 Goals and Challenges in Business 07:25 The Importance of Continuous Learning 09:11 Embracing Sexuality and Body Positivity 11:02 Behind the Scenes of Adult Content Creation 12:27 Future Aspirations and Rebranding 14:29 This or That: Quickfire Questions 19:21 Closing Thoughts and Social Media Links Zane Kazan, adult entertainment, sex positivity, branding, entrepreneurship, social media, mental health, hustle, authenticity —-- Visit us at www.OutLoudAndLaughing.com Listen on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/7obVHRF8knOr0WUMOZLJnM Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLvTk63DP29cMR3QjT_xkkHygIX2MZi1c9

T3 · E161

18 ago 2026

20:50

Disney High Seas Tales From a Quadruple Threat Puppeteer with Conor Devoe

Most theater kids dream of turning their childhood shyness into a dazzling career — and Connor DeVoe did just that, blending singing, dancing, acting, and even puppetry into a vibrant, multifaceted life. But it wasn’t always glamorous; he reveals how early stage fright almost kept him from singing “Tomorrow” at preschool and shares the gritty realities of moving to New York City with an unpaid internship in his pocket. In this episode, Connor pulls back the curtain on the unpredictable journey from shy kid to Broadway swing, dance captain on Disney cruises, and puppeteer for top-tier productions. You'll discover how he managed 36 tracks at once, navigated the heartbreak of being cut from roles due to equity status, and found resilience to keep going through the chaos of showbiz. We break down the surprising crossover between puppeteering and charisma, and why his secret weapon is charm over manipulation—plus, the hilarious way his puppet skills might just help him find love on the high seas. Get inspired by Connor’s blend of humor, hustle, and authenticity as he shares lessons about grit, reinvention, and staying true to your passion. Whether you’re an aspiring performer, a creative soul, or just someone chasing a dream in the face of adversity, this episode is your reminder that your quirkiest talents could be your greatest superpower. Instagram: @conordevoe TikTok: @conordevoe Website: conordevoe.com YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@OutLoudAndLaughing?sub_confirmation=1 Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Connor DeVoe: A Quadruple Threat 02:58 The Journey to New York City: Grit and Growth 06:22 The Art of Performance: Balancing Multiple Roles 09:04 Puppetry and Personal Connections: A Unique Perspective 12:00 Dating and Relationships: Insights from the Stage 15:02 This or That: Fun Rapid-Fire Questions 18:55 Closing Thoughts and Future Endeavors theater, Broadway, Disney, puppetry, musical theater, cruise line, acting, singing, dancing, performer journey —-- Visit us at www.OutLoudAndLaughing.com Listen on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/7obVHRF8knOr0WUMOZLJnM Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLvTk63DP29cMR3QjT_xkkHygIX2MZi1c9

T3 · E160

13 ago 2026

19:54

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