Everyone's building an AI that thinks like them. The bigger unlock is building one that fights back — a contrarian that exposes your blind spots.

Most people use AI as a faster version of themselves: an assistant that agrees, validates, and executes. This episode makes the case for the opposite. When emotions run high and you're certain you're right, the last thing you need is a machine telling you your idea is brilliant. You need a mirror — one you build in advance, when your ego is out of the way, so it's ready to hold the line when you're frustrated and reaching for validation. Josh walks through why a pinned project or custom gem beats a one-off chat, how to feed it your personality assessments and meeting transcripts so it knows your patterns, and how to make it coach you forward instead of just calling out your BS. Then he hands you f ...