Have you ever been quick to judge someone but turtle slow on correcting yourself? You know how people tend to have unrealistic expectations, but don’t have the same standards.

Some people skin will cringe when  they come in contact with people who have double standards.  We try to understand where they are coming from, then empathize with them to some degree.   Double standards are only ever a problem when someone perceives that the double standard is unfair.  It is a double standard that when a baby cries, mom is expected to immediately respond by comforting the baby.  But when mom cries, the baby is not expected to immediately respond by comforting the mother. But none of us think this double standard is unfair. We don’t think it is unfair because there are lots of good reasons why the double standard exists.  Hand ...