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3 Mistakes Anxious Attachers Make in the First 30 Days of Dating (And How to Stop)

The first 30 days of dating aren’t about commitment. They’re about data.

But if you have an anxious attachment style, those early weeks can feel like emotional chaos — not because the other person is doing something wrong, but because your nervous system is scanning for abandonment before anything has actually gone wrong.

In this episode of Mind + Motive, Phoenix breaks down the three biggest mistakes anxious attachers make in early dating — and how these patterns quietly sabotage healthy connections.

We cover:

• Why fast-forwarding intimacy creates pressure instead of security
•  ...