Episode 12: You don't need your ex's cooperation -- or even help from their accountant or tax preparer -- to get tax documents that will help identify the family's money flow, but you will need to go through a process to get those papers. This week, Tracy discusses how to get the tax paperwork, but also follows up on advice from her Divorce Money Guide on spotting troublesome transactions in common hiding places, notably on credit-card statements and in extra accounts.