How many of your decisions are actually coming from desire… and how many are coming from “should”?

In this episode, we’re diving into the emotional weight of “shoulds” — the internalized expectations that quietly shape our choices, especially in complicated relationships. Inspired by a real-life scenario involving guilt and strained family dynamics, we unpack why “I should…” can feel so convincing — even when it directly conflicts with your boundaries and lived experience.

We talk about where “shoulds” come from (family systems, cultural conditioning, gender roles, trauma), why they’re so often tied to guilt and fear, and how they can lead to self-betrayal when left unchecked.

Most importantly, we explore how to challenge and reframe them — so your life isn’t driven by obligation, but by intention and values.

Because just  ...