This episode explores the “curse of knowledge” — the invisible barrier that makes it hard for clinicians to remember what patients and parents don’t know. Once we understand a concept, it becomes almost impossible to imagine not understanding it. In paediatric care, this gap leads to miscommunication, frustration, and poor long‑term adherence.

We cover:

• What the “curse of knowledge” is and why it matters in medicine
• The tapping experiment: why experts overestimate how much others understand
• How clinicians “hear the melody” while patients only hear the “tapping”
• Why medical language (like “endoscope”) often fails children and parents
• How authority becomes a default response when understanding breaks down
• Why patients act according to their belief system, not our explanations
• The long ...