Setting boundaries with people can be deeply scary, so Kami Orange (she/her/hers) is here to guide us through what to say and how to say it. As a recovering(?) people-pleaser, Sophia gets Kami’s advice on specific scenarios where fat & plus-size people often feel like they need to set a boundary but struggle to do so. And then Kami gives Sophia a huge a-ha moment with a few brilliant coaching questions.

Kami Orange is a fat queer autistic white cis woman. Raised in a small cult subset of Mormonism in Utah by religious extremists and leaving home at age 17, she has an eclectic background. Having been everything from a psychic medium to a business consultant, Kami learned through doing how to set kind but direct boundaries as she moved 27x across the United States. After years of getting boundary scripting requests from friends...then fri ...