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faafo with courtney

faafo with courtney

por courtney - sisi in brazil

Historia Sexualidad

30 seconds will expose you

what are you unwilling to sit with for thirty seconds? because that tiny irritation, that thing you keep avoiding, it might not be standing in your way at all. it might be the whole lesson. Key Takeaways: Small frustrations reveal larger conditioning. Most people need more quiet, offline, grounded time than they realize. Discomfort is often the doorway to growth. Speak up when something isn't working instead of disappearing. Don't confuse engagement metrics with value. Create and show up because you're called to do it, not because you're guaranteed a response. Independence requires learning to tolerate uncertainty, inconvenience, and temporary discomfort. Get over to faafo.app for more!

instagram just asked me if i need a scroll break

summary: instagram asked me this morning if i needed a scroll break. i built the answer to that question a few weeks ago. the respite. if you have the code and you haven't been yet — the door is open. if you're a past guest who hasn't heard from me, you will. if you're new here and curious what an alternative actually looks like, the respite is at respite.faafo.app. read the full blog post at https://faafo.app/instagram-just-asked-me-if-i-need-a-scroll-break/

reconsider “like minded people” and diversify your portfolio

original video date: june 8, 2022 -- this episode started as a video on june 8, 2022, titled reconsider “like minded people” and diversify your portfolio. so much has changed since then --- i was in rural america in the middle of nowhere. now i am in bahia, brazil. but the message still hits. especially for people who are looking for answers from a spiritual perspective and have been stuck for a while. sometimes “like-minded” does not mean same personality, same interests, same lifestyle, same strengths, or same language for every part of life. sometimes it means the same larger direction. freedom. harmony. the willingness to move differently. the ability to build with people who do not mirror you, but are still pointed toward something aligned. that matters for relationships. that matters for community. that matters for business. that matters for relocation. because if you are trying to move somewhere new, especially outside the u.s., how you define community matters. if you think community means everyone thinks like you, lives like you, believes like you, earns like you, and wants the same things in the same way, you may keep missing the people who are actually aligned with your freedom. relative points from the transcript: “like-minded” may not mean having the same strengths or interests. the deeper question is whether the bigger picture or end goal is similar. freedom can mean different things to different people. some people want freedom in relationships, jobs, movement, travel, identity, or daily life. harmony can matter more than material success. sometimes the work is learning how to find peace in situations you do not like. sometimes the work is realizing a situation cannot give you the harmony you need. community works better when people bring different strengths. building with others does not require sameness. shared direction matters more than matching personalities. being intentional with words, choices, actions, and decisions changes who you attract. too smart to be boring. too alive for cookie-cutter marketing. i help wildcards, second-act professionals, and brands with edge turn attention into income without sanding off what makes them interesting. listen here: [insert podcast link] more at faafo.app get free at https://getfree.faafo.app/

reminder: not all skinfolk are kinfolk

"All my skinfolk ain't kinfolk" is a famous quote attributed to author and anthropologist Zora Neale Hurston -- ------ you probably have somebody in your ancestral line who sold out a revolution or a fucking rebellion. let's be fucking honest about this right now. not all skinfolk are kinfolk. people use a color for a cover. and some of your ancestors were cowards. sisi breaks down traitor energy, ancestral accountability, shadow work as a moneymaker, and why she will always sacrifice one for the whole. recorded live at 5:30am from bahia, brazil. read the blog post at faafo.app ------ and while you are here -- check out this blog post "Some Of Us Are Brave: The Archive" by https://www.theblackfoxes.com/stories/skin-folk-vs-kinfolk-- which I will copy below in the event you can access or it's removed. "...Black people who are only Skin-folk will quickly sign up to be poster child for initiatives and the like, contempt on their throne. They’ll become the faces of copy-n-paste foundations, or join DEI panels that don’t actually do anything. Kinfolk are in the trenches, less glamorous of course but they’re often the ones makings sure we get what we need. Kinfolk are a thankless few who without nearly half the resources, make it happen. Perhaps most iconically, you had skin-folk who maintained and played by massa’s rules. Kinfolk fought for freedom and had no qualms burning it all down. What would make a person go against their own people, seemingly shared best interests. Honestly that answer takes more time to go over than I could ever manage. Personally, one of the biggest reasons today I feel this happens is due to the “pie mentality”. Well what’s the pie mentality? In short, the idea that there is a finite amount of success or satisfaction in the world. Someone who does well is getting your slice of success or satisfaction. This is clearly toxic, and prevents collaboration at times you’d expect unity/solidarity. The pie mentality is a product of white supremacy, and the colonial foundations our society protects. This same pie mentality will lead skin-folk to believe they need only worry about themselves and getting theirs...."

wed, April 22, 2026 - facebook live: crapping on AI is a privilege

"don't come at me about AI because it's a privilege to be able to shit on AI when many people don't have the privilege to even have the imagination or have never seen a representation of anyone outside of themselves playing subservient to someone else." audio from a facebook live i did on february 22, 2026, when i came back to facebook after a long break and accidentally turned my profile into a content creator page by clicking buttons. what i actually get into: - the energy of social media and why coming back after a year feels like groundhog's day. people in the same loop, different jobs, no integration. the algorithm is doing to you exactly what people accuse AI of doing, but you can't argue with it because nobody named it - AI did not invent displacement. databases displaced workers. telephone operators got replaced. search engines scraped everything for decades. nobody held a press conference. AI is just the version with a name, so now people can finally complain at dinner - the privilege argument. it is a privilege to list your reasons for not liking AI. many people have never had the privilege to imagine themselves outside of subservient roles. friends here in their thirties who have never seen a meal cooked by a white man. who have never seen a male housecleaner. who don't know to ask the question because it is so far outside the script they were given - what i did about it. i used AI to flip the representation in a series of videos. my Black friends placed in roles brazilian media never shows them in --- the designer running a factory full of white seamstresses, the spiritual leader, the construction lead, the woman on horseback overseeing a tobacco field, the Black woman in the luxurious bathroom telling someone they missed a spot. i don't have tyler perry money. so i used the tool that was in front of me to put representation where it didn't exist - be the glitch. why doing something different in your physical life --- waking up on the other side of the bed, taking a different route, breaking the rhythm --- changes what the algorithm and the universe can predict about you - meta is gamifying you toward monetization. the points system. the suggested topics. the little circus animal hoops. why the success stories are being dressed up and what nobody tells you about what they had to do to qualify - mosquito blisters in the interior of bahia. floor-to-ceiling windows i now have to clean. why band-aids make me feel seven years old. the way i dress in the city versus the campo. and why i'm not using my child as an excuse for not getting free, since i fought for my sovereignty when he was small and i have the court papers to prove it a heads up: i forgot i was on facebook for a minute and a few words slipped through. consider this a flag for sensitive ears or kids in the car. if anything in here lands visit faafo.app. and if you want the rest of what i make: i host other podcasts on the faafo network --- you can find all of them on your favorite podcast app.

The Architecture of Liberation: AI, Identity, and Digital Ancestry

i clicked yes when the platform asked if my podcast was AI. i could have said no. here is why i didn't --- and why the people who are loudest against AI are often the same ones who have never contributed a single thing to the internet they are so busy defending. read "i said yes and i would do it again" check out the The Free Man's Line: Bell and Franklin Family podcast. sources: The Architect of Digital Freedom The Thirsty Hypocrisy --- r/aiwars on Reddit Van Jones: AI Is the Closest Thing to Reparations That Black People Are Going to Get i said yes. and i would do it again. --- faafo: Sisi (in Brasil) 10 steps ahead ° i walk the talk ° need help? code talker --- quem fala numa frequência que poucos conseguem ouvirfaafo.app

"If You Choose To Love an Awakened" by Sophie Bashford

if you choose to love an awakened woman, know that it’s not about playing it safe. this poem by sophie bashford is a raw invitation into deep, soul-stirring connection. she reminds us that loving a woman who’s awake—spiritually, emotionally, energetically—is going to shake you up, not tuck you in. this isn’t about comfort, it’s about evolution. it’s for those ready to rise, to be stretched, and to meet love as a force of transformation. you can read it on her website: https://www.sophiebashford.com/if-you-choose-to-love-an-awakened-woman/

mulher desperta por sophie bashford

se você escolher amar uma mulher desperta, saiba que isso não tem nada a ver com jogar seguro. este poema de sophie bashford é um convite cru para uma conexão profunda que mexe com a alma. ela nos lembra que amar uma mulher que está desperta—espiritualmente, emocionalmente, energeticamente—vai te sacudir, não te embalar. não se trata de conforto, mas de evolução. é para quem está pronto para se elevar, se expandir e encontrar o amor como uma força de transformação. você pode ler o poema completo no site dela: https://www.sophiebashford.com/if-you-choose-to-love-an-awakened-woman/

mystics

this is me reading something i wrote back in november 2001 when i was probably living in oklahoma. now i'm in brazil and sharing this because it feels more important than ever. it's about how i went from charging less than $20 for readings because i didn't know my own power, to over $190 an hour once i realized what i could actually do. the shift happened when i stopped listening to people who treated this work as just a hobby, studied myself like any other transformational project, and stopped caring what regular people or other spiritualists thought about my methods. the piece is about finding your real self - not the conditioned version shaped by fear or other people's expectations. my gift is feeling past what people hide in shadows, smelling fear, and tapping into essence beyond the surface. it takes courage because most aren't ready to be seen that deeply, and there will always be "who does she think she is" people. but i'm here to hold space for those ready to transmute. mystics see uniqueness in others because we see it in ourselves - you can't give what you don't have.

spellbound

this is me reading something i wrote back on june 9th, 2017 - a piece i called "spellbound." it came after one of the craziest life upheavals i'd ever experienced, followed by three months of sitting in almost complete silence, which led to a major awakening and what i can only describe as a major download or upload. the piece is about wholeness - about traveling through time to collect all the scattered pieces of myself that i'd left behind. the good, the bad, the happy, the sad. it was painful and blissful and absolutely necessary because i needed all of me to begin whatever journey was coming next. it's about being present - not being my past or my future, but being now. about magnifying the universe and embodying all aspects of existence. about being an archer who never misses her mark because my story is written with stars, a galactic farmer turning shit into fertilizer, an alchemist growing stars. this writing captures that moment of complete integration - when you realize you're everything and nothing, whole and sovereign, magic incarnate. it's about being the energy farmer, the wayshower, the rainmaker who transforms whatever comes into something that can nourish new growth.