In this episode of Dear Melanin KD, I reflect on the journey of being a big sister to ten younger siblings. I share my experience of sacrificing my own needs and desires to ensure my siblings always had someone to lean on, often putting their well-being before my own. I open up about growing up with four older siblings who didn’t provide the support I needed, which led me to pour everything into my younger siblings. Over time, I learned the importance of setting boundaries and accepting the limitations of certain relationships, especially with older siblings. This episode is an honest exploration of selflessness, unconditional love, and the challenge of balancing family responsibilities with personal well-being.