
Episode notes
Episode 26-28
A Fighting Chance
SERIES
Go, I Will _____the Church
DATE
July 12, 2026
SPEAKER
Trevor Richt, Preaching Minister
SCRIPTURE READING
Proverbs 25:6–10
SUMMARY
Addressing the inevitable reality of conflict and hurt within a church family, this sermon contrasts unhealthy coping mechanisms—stewing in silent resentment or spewing volatile anger—with Jesus's prescription for resolution. Believers are instructed to pursue direct, private confrontation aimed at restoration and reconciliation. When handled God's way, conflict resolution protects the unity and health of the church.
KEY POINTS
• "Stewing" buries hurt and breeds toxic resentment, while "spewing" lashes out recklessly; both are destructive ways to handle interpersonal conflict.
• When sinned against by a fellow believer, the proper biblical response is to go to them directly and privately in a spirit of love to seek resolution.
• If a private conversation fails, the process scales up—involving trusted witnesses and eventually church leadership—with the ultimate goal of spiritual restoration.
QUESTIONS FOR REFLECTION
1. Am I currently holding onto any unresolved hurt or bitterness that I need to address biblically?
2. Do I tend to stew or spew when offended, and how can I practice speaking up in a healthy, Christ-like manner?
